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Old Jun 28, 2014, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Tea&Sympathy View Post
Thanks gaylegg!

I also felt that lightness, as if an actual physical weight had been lifted from my shoulders. It was an amazing feeling. One more thing I don't have to worry about today.

Rainbowfairy-

You suggested a list of alternative actions to keep our minds busy. Perhaps you can think of some of those things and make a list for us?

If you don't see my around now and then, it's because I fight sleep. I will be up for 36 to 48 hours sometimes before I can sleep. It's not mania-it's just my natural pattern. Sometimes I will crash for 12 hours. But you don't need me for this. This is all about you. You make this pledge and you challenge the devils on your own. And give yourself an extra treat-you are courageous-and you deserve it!
I could, yeah, but realistically, everyone enjoys different things, so it should perhaps be a list that all those taking part construct between them. What I will do is list what I do, which may give some ideas - I mean, the one that works for me best was actually something a friend does regularly, so I guess we can inspire each other.

As mentioned before, my current most effective (and I may add, quick) alternative to catatrophising is chanting. catatrophising may not sound like too bad a symptom, but it can lead to a complete meltdown for me. I experience my mental catastrophes, on an emotional level, as if they really happened, if I follow them long enough. It is then very hard to soothe myself and I start magical thinking, that they were somehow prophetic, and it would be dangerous to ignore them.

So, for the purposes of this post, I chant in my head or outloud (if not in public) when I catch myself catatrophising - just for however long it takes to feel better - sometimes within a minute.
I chant Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo. The heart of the lotus sutra. I chant every morning also.

My next most effective method is talk, write, or walk. In that order. I do benefit from verbalisation of what is bothering me (although I had to become accustomed to this through therapy), but there isn't always an appropriate person available, so I will then write - journal, song, poetry - sometimes that is not enough, so I will then walk. A difficult walk. Exertion usually helps me get back in my body and out my head, so I walk over uneven, steep hills - probably rambling more than walking.

Those are what work for me. I have been chanting for a few weeks, and it hasn't failed me once yet when I've employed it to overcome a symptom. The others though aren't always effective or appropriate to every situation.

It would be good to see others' methods, and so we could have a big list for people to chose from to get through their 24hr pledge.
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Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo
Thanks for this!
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