Sunrise,
When I spoke to my T about the cutting and urges he just listened and didn't say much. I told him that I held a lot of shame about as I am very cognizant of the fact that I am a mature person and this is adolescent behavior. He asked if I thought that the difficlties in my relationship with my husband are triggers. But i don't think that's all of it. Anyway, the best part is I opened up and he was very kind and non judgemental. I recommend it.