I highly suspect T's are MUCH less pre-occupied by thinking about us outside of session than many of us are with thinking about them outside of session. Let's face it. We are one of probably dozens of clients he works with. He doesn't have enough time in his life to spend much of his free time focused on us outside of our sessions. Do we cross his mind? Sure, for perhaps a few minutes in the week, maybe more if he's particularly concerned about us that week for some reason, but he doesn't spend hours and hours thinking about each client. He couldn't possibly.