it could possibly be another form of self harming or you just cant bring yourself to say no out loud...which is perfectly fine because i know vocalizing emotions is very very difficult especially in that situation...id say yes but i guess it depends on others dictonaries....you know what i have done with my boyfriend...he told me tell him when i feel like cutting or i cant stand to have sex ( i cant either at times but for a reason i dont know ) i tap him on the cheek a few times....just with my pointer finger...at first he told me to tell him but i couldnt bring myself to tell him...ended up getting frusterated and would cut more....well he figured that out...so we devised a plan where no neccessary vocal communication was needed...and everytime i tapped him on the cheek he would stop and just lay down with me and hold me and we would watch some tv....try it....it might work ...talk to him about it when your feeling less affected and brave....at least try it...so when he is coming on to you in bed poke him in the face...something real weird like that...dont say i will just blink my eyes or cough....thats an average normal action and he might get mixed signals...but try it and see what happens and how you feel afterwards....good luck pm me if you need me....Love, Inny