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Originally Posted by addamsfamily
I have been in love with this girl for long. I knew that she was a bit "loose" with boys. She will date anyone. But I love her. She has never cheated on me. But her past breaks me and makes me lose my temper with her always. All her exes have said that she has had sex with them multiple times although she says that it happened only with one of her exes. I was a virgin when I met her 
We've had sex. She never enjoys sex with me as she is not a virgin. We fight everyday. How can I end my pain. I love her but for her past. In the end, she is a city girl. Can't expect much values. How can I deal with this. How can girls behave so? |
Relax. She
did NOTHING to you with her past. She didn't even know you then. People are not their past actions.
*biting my tongue so I don't say something rude and sarcastic*
Does she actually tell you she doesn't enjoy sex with you? Do you enjoy sex with her? I'm thinking this is WAY more about you than it is about her or her past. Look within. Besides, you can't change anyone's past, including your own.
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I love her but for her past. In the end, she is a city girl. Can't expect much values
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This sounds like you judge her and her past life experience more than you love her. "...but for her past." So, really... you don't love her... is what this says.
Look within.
*biting my tongue again*
Good luck.