I think that would be great if it works. I have not been able to separate the two associations, and it's really messing with my marriage. Have you found the "movies" being able to end without orgasm and not come back if you try again? Sorry if this is too personal. I can't seem to get to that point myself. If I manage to stop the movie, I can't orgasm... I've been trying to untangle it, but I don't know how. So if you end up figuring it out, I'd be interested in hearing it. Even my therapist hasn't been successful in helping me untangle it.