Hello Frances we have missed you .we thought about what you wrote, this whole last week and it was very helpful in getting through the week , wey're so sorry about your experiences , many of us as well as other family members can validate our experiences so for now we just step away from the stranger that calls herself a mother and as for the stepfather he is nothing ! allthough lori longs to have a relationship with them it isnt possible we love you Frances no offense taken by your post your friend alaways Lauren