Hello, mom63 Welcome to PsychCentral!
I am a psychology student, with ADHD-I and Asperger's, and I have the same problems as you. I misplace things, not notice others, and I always end up opening my mouth more than I should. I hope that we can at least make you feel more "normal", because often we forget that all of us always have something going on. Take care, and remember that we all have talents that will always be appreciated by the right people.