Anything is possible, Wants2. I've had a couple of days to think about it and I at least have to let her know how I feel. What she does with that is her business.

As for my daughter, I've moved on as much as I can. I really resent it when she comes down on a holiday because then I'm out in the cold. Any other time of the year, I'm okay.

I probably do need to find other interests to fill up my time and energy so these other things don't bother me so much.