Dang it Tomi.. been thinkin bout this since we talked earlier.. its got me po'd. Girl..... I think its time you pulled the reigns back in on your family here and became part of it again!! Your daughter has NO RIGHT to do this to you!!!!!!!! NONE!!!!!!!!!!! YOU Deserve to be with them EVER BIT AS MUCH AS SHE DOES on holidays or any other time they are together!! This is BS!!!!!!!!!!! TOMI