I see you mentioned trying to see it, from his perspective, in your OP.
Is this, to gain an edge legally or because you, deep down, desire reconciliation, and to understand his current irrational mindset, you can help him, fix this? Or other, internal motivations?
I ask, it's very common, in relationships, to want to fix what's broken, and get it back to where it was.

If you, truly desire, to follow through, he or you, can always pick the couch, until such time the home is sold and assets divided up.

Living under the same roof, can create possible emotional and physical danger, even if he's never been violent before. Plus, if children are involved, sends a very confusing message.

I know it's tough to start all the way down back at the bottom of the barrel, but climbing up, without such messy luggage, isn't as long, nor emotionally draining as many might expect. It's possible. Swallowing pride, to gain independence and peace of mind, leads to greater pride than conceivable.


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