this is a little embarrassing to talk about but I'm sure I'm not the only one having this issue.

I have been with 3 girls now, and with each of them i could never orgasm naturally. i haven't spoken to my family doctor about it because as stated its embarrassing.

scenarios run through my head as to what the issue could be. The one that seems the most logical would be that I'm just too stressed out during sex to be able to get to that point. to clarify, i want to be good, great if possible (as i am sure every man strives for) and the last thing that you want to happen is to go limp... it freaks me out a little so that rather my mind be on us its on "it".... what do you think?