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Originally Posted by hayleytheherbivore
He constantly morphs normal conversations into it HAVING to be about sex or flirtation and he keeps pressuring me about doing it. I DON'T WANT TO! I'm gentle but I tell him I'm not ready and I'm not comfortable with intimacy but he still expects us to be all intense and stuff because that's what he likes.
It's to the point where I purposely avoid him because I don't want to have to deal with him wanting to be intimate or talking about sex.
Now I'm regretting being in a relationship in the first place if this is what it means. I'm so frustrated I could cry. The most intimate thing I want in my life is for my cat to cuddle with me.
Is there something wrong with me? I don't see myself ever enjoying it. How do I stop him from pressuring me? He's so sensitive if I end it he'll throw a fit.
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This sounds like a person who you need to get away from. I have some of your words in quotes.
1. He pressures you
2. You avoid him
3. You are so frustrated you want to cry
4. He will have a fit
Hun he is not respecting you. This doesn't sound like someone I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I wouldn't want to have a relationship with someone who has that much impact over how I feel. He is affecting you negatively and your body and mind are trying to convince you of that. Listen to it. It will save you in the long run. Have you considered getting out before it gets any more difficult to do so.
As for the kissing and sex thing. I am with ya there .EWWWWWW and I am 40. Saliva and tongues and germs and slicky wet in my mouth or licking on me... yuck. I don't like kissing of any sort. And sex is almost as icky. Sweat, wet, gooey, the list doesn't need to continue, it is kind of gross. I can understand where you are coming from. But there is hope. I have 3 kids and a husband. We don't kiss, and we got them 3 kids some how, even though I am not thrilled about sex. But like I aid There is hope, you are mighty young as well. Your mind may change as you mature.