I can totally understand what you are saying.... I have different triggers than you - but yes - one negative comment (or more accurately one perceived negative comment) and I tend to freak out (resentment to deep depression to suicidal all within minutes)......

For me - kids asking a million questions or making messes or being slobs.... that is music to me - but I know it grinds many people. And one 'why didn't you _____' will freak me out - but may not bother you.....

Point is - we all have our triggers. And we all have strengths. Feel free to lean on me anytime. I would love to be of some help..... (for a change).