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Originally Posted by atomicc
I'm sorry these "friends" are taking so much out of you. Have you tried explaining to them that you need energy to save for yourself? Perhaps they are so focused on their own issues they can't see past them. :/
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Yes, in SO MANY WAYS I have tried, but they seem to think I'm supposed to include & invite them to EVERY SINGLE THING I try to do by myself! They actually get OFFENDED if I don't invite them to my PRIVATE family affairs and even call & text repeatedly when their not included & Disrupt whatever it is I'm doing! They consider anyone & everyone Rude & Selfish for not "thinking about" or catering to THEM! It never occurs to them that WE ALL have problems & that there are times when people are just in no position to help them. I am simply amazed that there are so many people like that in the world!