Here's my dilemma. My T has said that my husband and I need to come in together for some couples work because that is the primary relationship in my life. We have visited T together a couple of times but primarily for support when our son was very sick. When my husband was there with me he flat out said that he did not want to talk about his chldhood and had no interest in therapy. T said I have to drag him in that it is usually the wife that drags the husband into thereapy. However, when I asked he said he would go with me. I have been seeing this T for six months now and although I want to do the couples work, I am not ready to give up my own individual work. I am not sure how this will all play out. T did not say that I would be giving up my individual work but I am worried about how the couples work will affect my therapy.