Gloria,
That is possible...or on the other flip side it could only make things worse. By you telling him this he could come back to you and said "I know what I am doing. Don't tell me how to raise my kids."
However, maybe this is something you could bring up in counseling when you two go? The safe enviroment could make all the difference.

Jessica

<font color=blue>The worst is over now and we can breathe again
I wanna hold you high, you steal my pain away
There’s so much left to learn, and no one left to fight
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain</font color=blue>
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