My pdoc & 2 therapists have told me I need marriage counseling, but I'm the one who is scared to death of it. I'm afraid of any negative things he might say about me. I'm really fragile right now. I ODed in Aug. when he said a critical remark to me. We NEVER talked about the OD--just pretend it never happened, which is why everyone thinks we need marr. counseling.

So I've quit all my therapy. I just couldn't deal with being criticized. Don't know how to proceed, but I guess I'm on my own.--Suzy