I occasionally talk about sex with my therapist. I mostly get very uncomfortable. It's not actually the topic of sex itself that makes me uncomfortable -- it's this feeling that I have that if I'm talking about sex I'm just attention-seeking ('cause after all, everyone's curious about sex and most people DO want to hear the details). I can't get past the feeling that I'm just attention-seeking (like it's not really a problem and I'm just being gratuitous or something) so I'll often just drop the subject. It's too bad because I do have some real issues around sex. I imagine I'll talk more about it in the future.
Sidony
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