Gloria,
That kind of behavior is what worries me. It is really crappy of him to bring up stuff said in therapy to get at you. If he really wanted your marriage to work and things to change he would not do these things. I really think that he knows what he is doing..he is just mean.

Jessica

<font color=blue>The worst is over now and we can breathe again
I wanna hold you high, you steal my pain away
There’s so much left to learn, and no one left to fight
I wanna hold you high and steal your pain</font color=blue>
~Seether and Amy Lee