I think I will also get this book. I wouldn't be embarrassed because we learn how to be who we are based on our parents, teachers, friends etc.

So, it isn't about blame really but how we learned during our formative years...I look at my two year old right now and say I need to get this right for him so he isn't sitting across from a T someday feeling empty, scared, upset or desperate.

That's pretty much why I'm in therapy and I'm sure we all have similar reasons. My brother needs therapy more than I do. None of us can get him to see it.

He's a borderline, we're sure of it. He was released early from the Navy and the paperwork said he had a "personality disorder"...it was after a suicide attempt.

So, be glad we are all in therapy!!!!!