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Old Jul 01, 2014, 07:23 AM
Claritytoo Claritytoo is offline
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Originally Posted by Patagonia View Post
I have a young part that has been emailing my T for over 6 months off & on. Lately it's been alittle more I think bec I get triggered at night bec of nightmares.

My T suggested that we should go ahead & she should answer an email telling her that she could talk to her but everything was going to be cc'd to me. That she didn't like secrets & wants everything out in the open for me incase this part has things to say that could trigger me.

What do you think? This makes me nervous of course, bec I don't know the answers I'll find or what will b discovered. Why would this part choose email as a way to talk? I think it sounds strange. I thought parts came out in T to talk.
Any ideas?

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My little ones want to talk to my t because they see her as a caring adult that they can trust. The little ones are helpers who saved us when we were little. I think if you express your concerns with your little ones they will be considerate. Most times when I want to talk to my little ones I say my thoughts or concerns out loud. It helps all of us to trust each other. what is happening is a good thing.
Thanks for this!
Patagonia