I think I understand a little.
I almost always end up saying yes simply because I feel the other persons needs are more important than my own.
I've been working on trying to accept that I'm not a bad person but even that feels like I'm being self important and over confident.
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Originally Posted by Gus1234U
meant in the kindest way, but i heard that self-denigration is the other side of the coin of narcissism. always thinking about oneself, only negatively. it might be hard-wired, barely changeable, i don't know. the one thing i am sure of is that Self Acceptance is crucial to any peace of mind. i hope you find some {{{ On2 }}}

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Thank you for that. It's a thought I've been trying to find voice for for a while but could never quite get it right.