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Originally Posted by hvert
I was listing what the OP didn't like about him to illustrate that there isn't a communication problem. They have different lifestyles and very different values. She wants to get married and have babies. That's not the lifestyle he lives.
You aren't the only one that can see his side, but he is not the one asking for opinions. I do think we disagree about adult children who live at home when they have the means and competency to secure their own living arrangements and are not caretakers. A person who blames their ex for decisions they make about where to live is not someone I would want to marry.
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Well all I have to say about adult children, is that it depends on the motivations, of which I cannot find here. No one here knows the entire circumstances for which he chose to move in with his mother and considering he had his own place prior to this shows that he's probably capable and willing to do so, which also tells me likely we are not seeing the whole picture. If he was, for lack of a better term, a "mama's boy", he would have probably already been living with his mom after the break up of the marriage.
I'm just saying without all the information and really knowing his motivations and intentions for future living it's a little hasty to judge.. at least for me.