Sweetheart, I wish I had an answer to your "million dollar" question, but I don't really know. I am EXTREMELY pessimistic when it comes to trusting anyone to be real! It seems like the hardest language for people to speak these days is the Truth. I always assume that everyone is flawed in some way, and then I try to determine whether or not I can deal with them or not. Some people are so transparent that they're easy to see through, others are really gifted liars and harder to read. The most honest people among us are the hardest to find in my opinion, and are a rare and dying breed. I don't have allot of friends myself because I don't trust many people, and because I have enough of my own baggage & the ones I TRIED to be friends with always came with their drama and was just too much for me to handle! I wish you the best of luck!