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Originally Posted by June155
I have a problem and it always keeps happening.
I meet someone, I feel attracted, I have a great time with them and then they have to leave. And the first hours I'm fine, but then it starts to take over my mind.
I think about it every second, I constantly look at my phone just to see if I have gotten a message, all I want to do is see him again and I know that if I do it will only get worse. In a few days I'll be obsessed and think of him as the love of my life.
It's so ridiculous, I feel so independent, meet someone, play it cool, but by the next evening I'll be planning our marriage in my head.
And then when it doesn't work out, I'll be completely crushed.
I really want to find a way to develop a relationship in a healthy way by slowly letting something grow but I cannot stop the train of thoughts..
TIPS PLEASE! :-)
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done it many times! never could seem to get a handle on it

trying to avoid putting myself in that situation again!
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I have learned that i and i alone am responsible for my happiness, most people these days are as reliable as wet toilet paper!
