i think the paranoia is, at least it is for me..i never see things but i think things..many things, crazy things..mainly relationship related( why hasn't she called me/texted me..is she mad..do i do something wrong? what did i do..i thought we were fine) that type of stuff.

i could care less about random people/the govt/etc things of that nature. only people that matter to me.

the stress of no contact really bothers me as i need constant attention, so from a BPD standpoint i think yes.