she was a young teacher of 28. I am a married lady with two grown up kids and 48. She started stalking me continuously.
but she never communicated for 5 months. One day during a class outing we got a chance to talk alone. we exchanged our family details. On the way out she grabbed me and tried to kiss me. Then the next 2 days she avoided me. I thought she is gone because of my age and got a hair cut and stared to think that our age difference has driven her from me. That's ok for me I thought.Although I thought why didnt she communicate with me before. Then again she came back smiling but still no talking.I was getting impatient and restless and guilty on one side. So I went to talk to her and asked her to honestly explain what is that she wants from me and also hinted her that we are incompatible as the 2 days of rejection haunted me a lot and expecetd she would reject me anytime and so did not want to get hurt. That encounter shocked her a bit and she never came back to me but used to glance me far.
There was hurt in her eyes too and she was very stern.
But I had my family on one side and her unpredictable love on other. I was torn between both but still missed her glances. Then one day I got to to talk to her again in a calmer way and asked why she didnt come back to me and asked her if she understood what I meant the other day. She said it was like a mother -daughter relationship. we parted ways happily wishing happy summer holidays. On the last day of school I went to meet another teacher and she was in her room and glanced me with a forlorn face. I had no idea what she conveyed except sadness. I left the room.
When I was going home i went to wish my VPrincipal happy holidays , she was quite stern with me and said that she wanted to talk to me about my unprofessional behaviour complained by this teacher who stalked me.
I was at the receiving point and was made a scapegoat.
So to protect my innocence and why I talked to her personally, I had to expose the whole affair to my heads of school. An enquiry happened and her fate will be decided after holidays. I feel guilty for exposing her and damaging her reputation and career. Am i in the wrong or right? The Principal said that both of you will come back next term. He told me not to tell this whole thing to any one in future to any body.
I am totally confused and feel guilty. Did she do the right thing by complaining against me at the last minute on the last day of school even though this encounter happened 2 weeks before?
Pls reply to me soon.
Thanks
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