Im male, and im a very uncomfortable dancer. I feel nervous and rigid if im dancing on my own. I cant just get into it without feeling self concious, that people would be watching me, that id do it wrong or w/e.
But if I have a girl to dance with i feel instantly relaxed. Im sure im still ****, but its fine, i can enjoy it then.
However im concerned that maybe my intimacy is inapropiate. Seeing as i dont know how to dance, i cant really tell what is an inappropiate way to dance with another girl, as i have a girlfriend.

So recently I was at a friends birthday, and we went to play that involved dancing. Unsuprisingly i didnt really dance. i tried my best to bop or seem enthsiastic but it didnt really work. My friend, who include my sister and her bf called me over one or twice to dance with them, as i stopped just short of the circle they formed upon entering the dance hall. So i tried once, maye a second time, the third time i refused and left myself to my statuesque fate.

However later one of the friends of the birthday girl beckoned me to dance , i got to say that im not much of a dancer, that i dont normally dance etc, which perhaps soothed me to lower her expectations right off the bat,
but eh.. once i drew closer and crouched down a little bit (loosten my knees i mean) i felt instantly relaxed and it was cool.
But then i thought how does this look. Im not trying to ****** this girl i just want to dance for fun like a normal person. And i think i was pretty close to her. i mean we wernt grinding of ech other, but it was intimate like. Or i tthink so anyway. So i looked around and saw my sis and her bf were looking at me, im not sure what the liook was saying, weather it was 'oh look he's finally dancing', or 'thats how he dances'. but it was enough to make me back away. Unfortunaely my solo dancing then rapidly deteriorated again.

So its an embarasing question to ask abouot a topic which i am embaressed to do.. But is my dancing too sexual..
Whats an okay way to dance with someone?