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Old Jul 02, 2014, 01:35 AM
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I think you just have to make some agreements--- that he agrees he doesn't understand and will take you at your word of what you need and how it goes.
And you'll agree that you won't expect him to understand?
I have done that after 17 years of pain, but now its his constant unwelcome comments of why didnt you do this, why didnt you do that, why cant you help in the yard, why are sleeping so much this week (ect) that are getting to me, and I am tired of hearing them from his lips, he should know all this by now. If he cant understand my pain then at least give me the respect of being his dear loving wife and not have to hear him complain. I think I might just break one day and the words that will come out of mouth unto his ears will shock.