Tina,
I'm a little biased here having been a close friend of yours for 4 years. I don't know why this is happening to you. You're very intelligent, you always have interesting things to talk about, and you have a great sense of humor. If we didn't have that damned 3000 miles between us, I'd go out to lunch or have coffee with you anytime I had the chance.
You're right, you are a good person (and it made me smile to see you write that), and you shouldn't have to be the one who always puts out the effort. I believe that someone is going to see the value of having a friend like you. What a wonderful gift you are.
If I can figure out how to bridge the mileage gap before it's too late, lunch is on me.
Thanks for being my friend, and for being there for me,
Greg
"Beauty is truth, truth is beauty - that is all you know on earth, and all you need to know"