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Originally Posted by oceansoftime
This is my first reply to a post, hope I do it ok.
I could have written your post but I'm 18 years with someone like this. Zero affection, compliments, gifts, notes, nothing.
Holidays are the worst especially when you see others get beautiful gifts from their husbands. I dread when someone asks, I always lie and say we concentrated on getting gifts for the kids or whatever.
I've asked him why he is like this and he says its just him so at this point I quit asking but the resentment is always there.
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i have major resentment. im 25 hes 30 you'd think someone this old would know better. i don't ask for much really and im not even getting close to what i am asking for your right when you say holidays are the worst, but also for it has been more so being around all his friends and some of mine, both are in the stages of getting engaged/ married having kids. people ask us constantly when we are getting married and such i always just put my head down and make some excuse, or i tell them to go ask him, whihc is basically knowing it will never happen , its very frustrating