This isn't at all pity for you dear, I am just so sorry you got this news and right now it's weighing really heavy on you.

I do not have cancer myself, but I am on chemotherapy, so I spend a lot of time around cancer patients in the infusion center. A lot of them go to groups aimed at their age groups, but I do think that depends on the kind of person you are. I have a few extreme autoimmune diseases and I lasted a few months in a support group where I really didn't speak, but it helped just.... being in a room with people who understood how life changing it is. Even that gave my mind a bit of a break.

There are online communities too. If you're interested in blogging, I know tumblr has a huge cancer network and they are all so great to each other.

Please do take care <3 many hugs