I know how you feel. I have seen so many pdoc's for second/third/fourth/fifth opinions and they all know about my sex life, childhood traumas, 'delusions' of mine, etc etc. And these are all on record somewhere. Horrible. I was also ill while I was a teenager, and a creepy pdoc working in hospital asked me if I was a virgin, and when I said yes he looked really surprised but also...approving? weird as hell and creeped me out so much. Why did he even have to know whether I was a virgin or not and how many boyfriends/girlfriends I'd had in the past? I was 15! I've also had a few T's ask me some unusual sexual-undertone questions which are unrelated to my therapy and mental health issues, and I think they ask just because they can.