There are decent guys your age out there. They just aren't in the spotlight right now. Kind of like the girls that you mentioned who, in your opinion, look tacky.... There are others out there who aren't that way. Those girls just aren't getting much attention.

Anyway, please don't settle for this man because he's nice and you like his mom (or whatever). It needs to be love that keeps you deeply rooted to (whomever). There are a lot of factors that fall into love & just a couple of them doesn't cut it in a decent lifelong commitment. I'm sorry, but I really think that you should cut your current relationship short before things get too intense and/or complicated.

You will find a better man for you in some time. Try not to worry. I know that is easier said than done, believe me...I know. Finding yourself and figuring out what's important to you also takes some time as well. There is no need to rush into deep relationships. You can't make someone else happy if you, yourself, aren't truly happy. ((((hugs)))) and very best wishes to you Mika!