True. That doesn't mean they have a right way of doing things and we have a wrong way. I do think most people can improve their understanding of others.

Of course I do see the issue, it is easy to be perceived as callous and machine like. That doesn't mean we are machines, even those of us who actually don't really feel for others in a direct sense. Also, there are other means of being seen, I'm seen as a very good friend IRL, and it doesn't come from my warm and cuddly nature (LOL), but people who know me know actions speak rather loudly, and I act kind.

My biggest issue is with those who do not know me or never gave me a chance. Those who are so stubborn they think a first impression is always right.

So yea, we get a lot of crap "back", but there are those who actually listen to words and see actions. "Normal" is a spectrum too.