Hi TJ, really good that you're getting weekend leave. But don't forget you're not going to have to be all on your own in coping with this, it doesn't have to be an "in at the deep end".
If you need your wife to phone the ward for some advise/backup then that's absolutely fine, they're there to help if...........and that won't mean you've failed in the slightest if they need calling..........might be they can offer some advise or advise about uping your medication. They're going to be wanting to see this working as well as it can, as well as you. So not on your own, hey??!! Just use the backup if you need to.
And some structure sounds great- just see it's manageble for you- not too much, not too little.
And you know if, if, if you were only to manage a day at home, then no problem.........it's a start..........and something to work from in them supporting you to manage for longer.......and longer......and longer. So less pressure, hey??!!
Secret had some really good advise about having sharps secured/less accessible though- do you think you could/should arrange for that (?).........you know about temptation when it hits, don't you??!!
But the Aspergers...........didn't sound like an actual diagnoses............maybe see whether they follow it up.........and even get a bit more information on it (if you're not already clued up on it!!).
Now TJ..............go get/have your wife get you some ear plugs and try to enjoy as much of the weekend as you can!!!
Try not to forget about us though we're here if you need some extra support!!

Alison