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Sorry this is negative......but your children come 1st and your mental health of course. If he wants your family he has to show it..he needs help and his actions - only actions will show he is worthy. You and your son may need to get some emotional support as well. It drives me NUTS when people will choose their mate over their children - and I mean children that still live in the home. Once they are gone and your decisions do not really affect them..that is a different story.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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