EpicEddie
Maybe your mother is worried about the life pattern you are in, where it leads to, and does not know how to guide you to a more responsible life style.
Can you get a job? That seems to be one of her concerns.
Recreational drugs tend to mask a problem if our intention is to escape and not face some things in our lives.
Imagine what you would do if your mother or father would not support you anymore. If you start at that point and begin to make decisions that lead to more independence, then you may gain the respect of your mother and contribute to this world in another way besides sitting in front of the computer. You have more talent than that and we need all the talented people we can find to meet the challenges of this world.