We had "Graduation" for completing all 4 modules of DBT for two ladies in our small (4) group the other day. All our therapists and the other 3 group members had something nice to say and/or gifts and cards for the graduates.

I am totally embarrassed. It had never crossed my mind to say anything or to get anything for anybody. I sat there like an idiot, the only person with nothing to say.

I don't feel any connection to these people. None. Nada. Zip. Why do they all feel warm and fuzzy for each other? Why am I so strange? I don't know what, but something is terribly wrong with me. Why don't I have feelings? Why don't I connect with anyone?