Hello friend,the greatest compassion to you. Jesus,
these kind of people are NARCISSISTS! And don't
give a damn for anyone except themselves.Could
you not try the 'goose for gander' actions and when
THEY are quiet,rack up your OWN NOISE,see how they like it back! You can't go on like this,you
will end up seriously ill through these numbskulls.
Either make your own noise,or if that doesn't work,
move. (for health sake). I think you are in PTSD, it
wasn't till it stopped,that I realized how severe it had
affected me--I am STILL recovering over year later!