I've left him alone like he wanted. You are right, there's no point trying to reason with him. It will just leave to more disappointment and more troubles on my part. I did however view his Facebook page. Big mistake on my part. He was apparently talking to a female. Another reason why I think he ignored me after he slept with me. Anyway, he was going on about how he should maybe stop caring and being nice to others, cause they just look the other way. And he says it's sad cause he actually expects it to happen and that it says a lot about him. It made my blood boil due to the fact that firstly, he is not a nice person, he has never cared about me or the child we lost. Never has he had tried to show compassion or love, at least a shoulder to cry on when I was sad. He read it and ignored it. Every time. Secondly, who is he to expect a female to be romantically interested in him just because he comforted her? To me that's only showing kindness for your own selfish reasons. But at least karma is on my side and now he knows what it's like to be in my shoes. Though sadly, he still thinks he has done nothing wrong. As far as therapy goes, I'm looking into it. My cousin has demanded that I go see a therapist. It's probably time. I do go to a message board for women dealing with loss from abortions. It amazes me how so many men act the same way that he does. These women have tried to open up to their abortion father's and fail. Some even see them every day at school and pretend like they don't know him. It's very sad.