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Originally Posted by purplemystery
I haven't gone all the way with him, but I do get attached after any sort of sexual activity. But physical intimacy without being emotionally vulnerable is obviously not as great, and I'm looking for both. I think he could really like me if I showed him who I am, but as of now, how could he like me too much if he doesn't know me? Maybe guys think there isn't much inside? He did say I come off as one of the most shy people he has ever met. It's so hard for me to connect with others in the beginning. :/ Would it be weird if I told him this?
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I don't think it would be weird at all. Communication is always important and I think for you, the wisest course of action so he doesn't misunderstand your shyness. You don't have to go into major detail, (if your concerned how much to tell) just let him know just what you said...that it's hard for you to connect with people in the beginning....and you could add, that you're working on it, with him, because you like him.
Good luck!