Rap, frankly I don't see a problem with pinning his ears back. You've explained and explained and explained and he still doesn't get it. Maybe losing your temper with him will get his attention.
This is kind of mean of me, but how about the next time he is sick try saying some of the same things he says to you to him. When he responds that he can't because he is sick point out to him that you can't do those things BECAUSE YOU ARE SICK!!!
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