I don't really get how you can be gay if you are married to a woman... I mean I understand that you prefer men but you're not repulsed by women so that would make you bisexual...That's just how I see things. I'm kind of the same way sexually. Well sexually only. I prefer guys but I always was ok with making out with girls. So I always knew I was bi even though I was still considered gay. Like I'm not repulsed by women. I know girls and guys who could not even make out or go second base with a girl because they are that unattracted to them. So I guess that's why I have my personal opinion on bisexuality/homosexuality.

But I'm 20 and openly bisexual. My gf has always known. So she knows the possibility of if we didn't make it that I most likely would find a guy to settle down with. As long as your wife knows what she's getting into you can't be blamed.