Well, he has admitted talking and texting this woman. I talked to her husband again, and he said that her cell phone bill is over $600, so they must have had quite a few conversations. But like I said, my husband has fessed up to messing up. He knows that I won't stand for it, and we have a long way to go when it comes to regaining my trust. He has to go out of town again this week, but I am keeping his cell phone here. If she wants to talk to someone she can talk to me. I don't blame all of this on her because I know that it does take 2 to tango. We are looking into marriage councelling, too. It's just going to be awhile before I heal from this. He never actually met the woman (who has the same name as me... go figure), but the emotional damage has been done. I love my husband and I want to save my marriage. He's doing all he can to make it better. I made him call her (in front of me) and tell her that he didn't want anything else to do with her. I also made him call her husband and tell him that he wants nothing else to do with her. Her hubby is really pissed off about this, and I do believe that my hubby and his wife will no longer be talking. My husband even offered to let me go with him on his trip this week. I honestly do think this is over between them. Now it's just time to heal.