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Originally Posted by hvert
If there is any way you could let the porn thing go, I think you would feel so much better. Why does it matter if he watches it, as long as he is discreet? It's a pretty standard male behavior in this day and age. Can you just accept that you don't 100% agree with everything he does? Then you wouldn't have stress over whether or not he was lying to you.
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Amen to that.
A lot of the time we complicate our own lives and cause our own misery. I'm no genius I've been guilty of it too with my bf in certain situations.
My new motto? Simplify
If you can let your hangup with his porn go, then save both of you a lot of grief and do so.
I'm guessing you're not 100% against it anyway, since you considered watching it with him. So I'm betting you cannn let it go, if you really want to.