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Originally Posted by Sister Rags
Trippin2.0...thank you for your post. Again, judging the situation between my husband and I is a very, very different aspect of this situation than I intend to discuss here. In (very) short, my husband is extremely guilty and remorseful for his behavior while we were a living-together-married couple. He is remorseful with good reason. David is quite mentally ill. Believe me when I say that he'd rather pay for things than take the necessary steps (intensive therapy, meds, MAJOR life changes) to change.
Your question "What is John bringing to the table that only he can bring, and that you Sister Rags absolutely cannot bare to live without?" is an excellent one. It is practical, and it gives me tangible facts to consider. Thank you.
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My apologies, I never meant to come off as judgmental, I accept and acknowledge that the 3 of you entered into an agreement that suited all 3 parties, no matter how uncommon a setup it may appear to be. I never meant to pass judgment on your arrangement, at all.
Where I believe I may have overstepped my boundaries, is in how in my opinion, I had chosen to describe John's attitude / actions regarding you and David financially supporting him. Immature, etc... And if my description was uncalled for, then I sincerely apologize. I admittedly have a habit of calling it like I see it, and its meant more as a direct observation, i.e, an outsiders perspective, and not meant as an attack on any person or their subsequent choices.
Again my apologies Sister Rags, I did not choose to engage you with the intention of offending you.
Ps. The pets get to live with whom ever can afford to look after them. Simplify and take care
