Hello, perpetuum. You seem to be hearing only what you want to hear because of your feelings for the person. There is a parade of red flags.

You seem to be getting something from this relationship. Even so, keep in mind you likely are being manipulated, and your ability to help someone under that circumstance is unlikely.

I think you know the downside of what you are doing. If you can accept the downside, nothing I say will make a difference.

I wish you well.