My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now. She is 31 with four kids from her only marriage and I am 28 with no kids, never been married. Our relationship is near perfect, like we were made for each other in every aspect. The love of my life, neither of us has ever felt like this about anyone, her not even her ex husband. She can't have any more kids cause her body can't take a sixth pregnancy (she lost her second baby) but this is our ONLY issue. I want a baby, and have even asked about a surrogate mother (which she emphatically replied NO WAY). I am the last of my family to pass on our name, not that that's important, but it kind of is to me. But I also always wonder what our baby would look like, how smart they'd be, how creative or annoying or hyperactive they'd be and it depresses me that I'll never know. I'm not the kind of guy to just knock some girl up. I want a kid with my girlfriend not some random girl. She says she wouldn't have a problem with it if we broke up so I could go find someone else that can have my kid and if I don't in a few years I can come find her again... ?!?!?! She's not a second place trophy she's my grand prize!!! She says she's not the right girl for me cause she can't give me everything I need, but she's given me so much more than anyone has ever given me, fulfills me more than anyone else could. I don't want to give her up just for a kid but I don't want to be resentful and depressed later in life because I never had one. What the hell should I do??